??? Girlfriend ???

Our seven year old announced to us a few months back that he has a girlfriend. It isn't much past being "best friends", but they decided to give it a title. When I first found out it took great restraint to not seize up. I read parenting books, talked with my husband, and reflected on my own childhood. It is perfectly natural to explore the relationships and personalities or those outside of our homes (and extended families). We made sure to include the "no spreading germs" talk (thanks to the advice of a neighbor who works with school children in her profession, thankful for her). His "girlfriend" is more like a reflection of himself, same personality, some humor, etc.

Our youngest son recently announced he has a girlfriend. I was certain with his competitive spirit; it is more about the dynamics with his brother than a first crush. I asked him what her name is (sounds cute). Than I asked if she knew she was his girlfriend, "nope". Later when talking to my husband, I whispered, "that doesn't have stalker written all over it". All in good fun, we laughed outside the discussion with our son.

I do want to add; I have gratitude for the book I have been recently reading! It states to talk to your kids about things that "don't matter" because it opens the doors to the things that do matter! It is hard to face those emotions of my baby doing things I am not ready for or giving up control so they can grow into who/what they are to become. And I am thankful for the fact we have more than one child so we don't have a narrow view of parenting. Each child is a different adventure in life... diverse personalities, different looks, and it has been a huge blessing!